This project has come out of one of the worst times of my life during graduate school in 2014 when I was in a deep, dark hole of depression and I just wanted to give up. My Ancestors stepped in and I was given the choice to keep doing nothing and suffering, ending it all, or building a solid foundation of self-healing out of the rubble of my life. I choose healing and self-determination.

The project has three parts:

1) My relationship with food and eating
2) My relationship with my body being in movement
3) My body, intimacy, and healing from sexual trauma

Within those three categories, I participate in acts of self-love, healing, liberation, and survivance.

Exploring My Relationship With Food and Eating

Cooking and eating with safe and loving friends: I like to ask them about their relationship with cooking and food. Who taught them to cook? What do they like cooking and why? What does food and nourishment mean to them? This has really helped me see others model a healthier relationship to eating and food as well as give me new ways to think about food. Plus I've eaten some amazing meals with loved ones.

Cooking and exploring foods that I didn't grow up with and were not tainted by diet culture.

Cooking with my sweet dog, Journey, by my side. She helps me stay focused, helps me relax and reduce my anxiety and best of all she helps me enjoy the cooking process and exploring flavors. I talk to her throughout the process and explain to her what I'm doing and what the recipe says. This has been extremely emotionally healing and I way that I can externalize my inner thoughts while cooking instead of them getting stuck in my head and painful memories of the past and dieting and starvation coming to the forefront.

Getting coaching by a provider trained in Body Trust through the Center for Body Trust. This was wonderful for me and really helped me gain insight and healing into my eating disorder and disordered eating past.

Healing Embodiment Through Movement

Thinking back to my childhood and all the ways I loved to move and be in my body. Then I made a list and practiced them. Thank you to This Body Is Not An Apology written by Sonya Renee Taylor where I learned about this idea.

Finding and working with two amazing  fat and body positive movement professionals. They both listened to my needs and made movement fun and educational and supported me through all the emotions and memories that came up from the somatic trauma.

Canoeing with Geneva in the Salish Sea and tipping over the canoe into the freezing October waters.

Personal water walking classes lead by my nephew James.

L to R: Shilo, Sonya Renee Taylor, and friend Brianna Bragg

Healing From Sexual Trauma

I mostly keep this area of my healing private, however, I will say that EMDR (Eye Movement, Desensitization and Reprocessing) Trauma Treatment was a game changer for me. If you have complex PTSD I highly recommend looking into it.

"Shilo taught me so much about body sovereignty and being a leader in my own health care. She is passionate and knowledgeable. She speaks truth and doesn't tend to pussyfoot around. Highly recommended. 5 stars"

— Logan Trudeau

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Guest podcasts where I've talked about Body Sovereignty

Find Your Tribe Podcast
Awakening of the Heart & Spirit Part 1

Find Your Tribe Podcast
Awakening of the Heart & Spirit Part 2

Everybody Podcast
Great Awakening of the Heart and Spirit

Do No Harm Podcast
Patient Empowerment Through Fat Acceptance

The Appetite Podcast
On Recovery, Indigeniety, and Fatness

Women of Size Podcast
Remembering Our Bodies

Feminist Fifty States Podcast
Body sovereignty, indigeneity, and learning to pronounce Łush Kumtux Tumtum with Shilo George

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Two Spirit Aunties

Listen to my podcast where I talk with special guests about creating the life, love, and relationships you want. New episodes posted each week.

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I have given presentations to medical providers on weight stigma, fatphobia and providing trauma informed, weight inclusive and compassionate care.

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  • This training is geared towards people who experience body-based oppression such as fat people, trans and non-binary folks, people with disabilities and those living with chronic illness. For those of us who inhabit bodies that are politically, medically and socially oppressed and experience barriers, this training goes over the power of body sovereignty and what body autonomy and healing can look like. Through the lived experience of the trainer, who is superfat, disabled, and Two Spirit, they describe through stories, photos and artwork their continued journey of body sovereignty. This training can focus on the path to healing and body sovereignty or the training can focus more on walking participants through reflection questions for their own healing journey. Therefore this training can be more of a workshop feeling than training depending on the needs of the organization.

    2 hours

  • This training is often connected to the Body Sovereignty training as it goes deeper into ways that people who experience body-based oppression can build skills to better navigate health systems. Using Shilo's own "So You Want To Be On Team Shilo" document as a starting point, they discuss how they created this document they give to all their providers. The document goes over Shilo's pronouns, identities, and other demographic information that's important for the provider to know. Then it goes through specific wording to use for Shilo's body and words NOT to use. The bulk of the four page document goes over specific and clear guidelines for providers in upholding Shilo's health and wellness. The document ends with Shilo's health and wellness goals, their skills, talents and resources and other important information. The training then helps participants walk through reflection questions if they would like to make a document for themselves or just to become clearer on how they want to be treated by their providers. Shilo has a free Word document template for participants to use if they would like.

    2-3 hours

Training and Workshops for Body Sovereignty